Mark Darcy told Bridget Jones 'No, I like you very much. Just as you are.'
That's when her friends asked: 'Just as you are? Not thinner? Not cleverer? Not with slightly bigger breasts and a slightly smaller nose?'
In my humble opinion, there are 3 types of people, when it comes to feeling one's life is full; suns, planets and moons.
Moon-people need planets as a center in their life to revolve around; when there no planets, they feel empty and worthless. They put their whole life on hold until they find a new planet to shower with love and attention.
Planet-people are slightly better, yes they need sun people to revolve around, yet have their own interests and are capable of having a life of their own. They show their love, respect and admiration to sun-people but also admit responsibility towards moons.
Sun-people not only don't need other people to feel complete but also have the capability to spread love, happiness and sunshine to those who care about them.
Until a year or so ago, I used to be a hopeless moon. And coincidentally, I happen to always choose the wrong planets. And those planets made sure I always stayed a moon by killing any personal aspirations or ambition I may have. But I took the major leap I should have done ages ago and broke free of the mental chains and became a planet person. I have my own life, goals, hopes and dreams that are independent of my sun, but still, I need my sun.
Speaking of 'Just as you are' as Mr. Darcy stated, in the past, Planets have asked me to loose weight, grow my hair long, find treatment to get it thicker and give it more volume, change my glasses, get a tan,... etc. Some even managed to ask my to deal with problems I never knew I had, only to make me realize how full of imperfections I am, which, eventually killed any remaining self confidence.
Yesterday it hit me, that those wrongfully chosen planets, affected my life even after I have ceased to be their moon, anyone's moon, even now that I'm a planet myself, but those words they spoke for whatever reason actually leave scars indefinitely.
So now, a sun, that would , not only, spread his sunshine on me, but also have to deal with all those scars left by those looser planets. Sun, should unfairly deal with my insecurities caused by other people and meanwhile, love me just as I am. What the hell, I am such an unfair person!
That's when her friends asked: 'Just as you are? Not thinner? Not cleverer? Not with slightly bigger breasts and a slightly smaller nose?'
In my humble opinion, there are 3 types of people, when it comes to feeling one's life is full; suns, planets and moons.
Moon-people need planets as a center in their life to revolve around; when there no planets, they feel empty and worthless. They put their whole life on hold until they find a new planet to shower with love and attention.
Planet-people are slightly better, yes they need sun people to revolve around, yet have their own interests and are capable of having a life of their own. They show their love, respect and admiration to sun-people but also admit responsibility towards moons.
Sun-people not only don't need other people to feel complete but also have the capability to spread love, happiness and sunshine to those who care about them.
Until a year or so ago, I used to be a hopeless moon. And coincidentally, I happen to always choose the wrong planets. And those planets made sure I always stayed a moon by killing any personal aspirations or ambition I may have. But I took the major leap I should have done ages ago and broke free of the mental chains and became a planet person. I have my own life, goals, hopes and dreams that are independent of my sun, but still, I need my sun.
Speaking of 'Just as you are' as Mr. Darcy stated, in the past, Planets have asked me to loose weight, grow my hair long, find treatment to get it thicker and give it more volume, change my glasses, get a tan,... etc. Some even managed to ask my to deal with problems I never knew I had, only to make me realize how full of imperfections I am, which, eventually killed any remaining self confidence.
Yesterday it hit me, that those wrongfully chosen planets, affected my life even after I have ceased to be their moon, anyone's moon, even now that I'm a planet myself, but those words they spoke for whatever reason actually leave scars indefinitely.
So now, a sun, that would , not only, spread his sunshine on me, but also have to deal with all those scars left by those looser planets. Sun, should unfairly deal with my insecurities caused by other people and meanwhile, love me just as I am. What the hell, I am such an unfair person!
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